THUMBS HIGH SANTA CRUZ
GUEST SUBMISSION #3
THANK YOU GABI KIRK
It’s getting cold, though, and I’m frustrated at the lack of empathy from my fellow travelers. I try to put on a nice but non-threatening smile, but soon realize most of the drivers can’t even see my face. Finally a red pick up truck pulls over. I recognize a familiar face, my good friend’s boyfriend, in the front seat. I’m close with his partner but haven’t seen him in months. “My bike got a flat,” I say sheepishly. “Grab it and throw it in my truck!” he exclaims, happy to see me. Seems like my luck is looking up. I get in and we make small talk. Somehow I feel less comfortable talking to him than if he were a complete stranger, though. I often find it easier to start from scratch than navigate the social niceties required when you see an acquaintance. Perhaps this is why I have problems keeping friends through my time at UCSC. I find it easier to make new
friends than to maintain existing relationships. I wonder how well I will do at keeping in touch after graduation.
He drops me a few blocks from my house, apologetic. “I’m meeting a friend downtown and I’m already late,” he explains. “Otherwise I’d take you all the way home.” I haul my bike out and drag it six blocks before dumping it unceremoniously into my garage, then collapse onto my couch. One more block and I would have popped just like my tire. One more week of school, and I do not know if I could get through. Sometimes, that ride comes along just when you need it.
THANKS FOR SHARING GABI, THUMBS HIGH!